PARENTAL NOTIFICATION?!

So it appears that the parental notification law has been cleared to be enforced in Illinois. This is yet another way to control women. The decision to have an abortion is a difficult one to make. But it is still that woman's decision. The only notification of that decision should be to the clinic, not the parents! I'm a mother myself. Why don't we as parents do our part and build relationships with our daughters that if THEY decide to have an abortion, maybe THEY will decide to tell us . And NOT be forced to!!!!!!!!!!!!!