Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Today, I found out some horrible news...My sister is pregnant. My sister is a beautiful, bright, 23 and a half year old woman. She is ambitious(y'all know I'm not the best speller) and hard working just like our father (R.I.P. Daddy). She has 3 children already, my nephew and nieces are beautiful intelligent wonderful children, but unfortunately I cant say anything good about her husband so I wont say anything at all(even though he likes to curse me out every time he hears my name mentioned but whatever). The fact is my sister is in an abusive relationship, I'm not gonna put her business out there but we all know what an abusive relationship is. Either way, my little sister is pregnant again and I know what to tell her but I don't. I believe every woman has a right to choose what she wants to do with her body whether it's have an abortion or have a baby. It's completely her choice, but I know what I want her to do. Life is hard enough without making it more complicated for ourselves and even though her embryo might turn out to be the next musical or athletic prodigy, we just don't know what the future holds. I just hope she knows that I love her and support her in whatever decision she makes.

1 comment:

Gaylon said...

crystal i feel you on this. it is difficult to watch people you care about be in difficult and crazy situations. we want so bad to rescue them but they have to make their own decisions. just let your sister know you care and be there for her. send out prayers and good wishes for her into the universe. she has to come to the decision to leave an unhealthy relationship. no one can make her leave....or even make her stay. just love her the best way you know how.